Let’s face it. Many people hate being single. They yearn every day for someone in their life. It would be nice to go home to someone. However, the task of finding someone can seem so daunting. It is the same old dilemma, you won’t meet someone unless you make an effort. As many of the teachers say, what you focus your attention on happens. Well, for singles it is a little more than that. Many times it is the main focus of their attention however, nothing seems to be happening.
Then other people say, it happens when you are ready. Then many singles scream, “I am ready, I am ready.” Then nothing. It is so frustrating. However, singles know from the bottom of their heart that when it does happen, it is the best. So that is why they strive onward.
If I was going to say one thing to singles that I know is true, is that the amount of effort put into finding someone and your willingness to have an open mind equals finding someone in your life. I manifested meeting my boyfriend. My friend and I would talk a lot about manifesting something or in this case, someone in our lives. Well, I told myself that I wanted to meet an interesting man, may it be for personal or it could be for business or maybe just for a brief interesting conversation. I left it open-ended.
Well, this left me in a place to wonder about every man I met, may it be in the elevator, at a networking event, at a meeting or whatever. I would always say to myself, is this the interesting guy I would meet? Well, not a week later, I met my boyfriend at a networking event. He asked me out(which trust me rarely happened to me) and I said “Sure, why not.” And here I am.
So I guess the best way to be is to be open-minded. Remember parachutes are like our minds, they don’t work unless they are open. Ciao!!!!
